chore: Update some external dependencies

[mathbunnyru]

High Level Overview of Change

A new round of updates:

• grpc without our no-longer-needed custom patch
• updated recipe revisions from the official CCI where possible

Context of Change

API Impact

• Public API: New feature (new methods and/or new fields)
• Public API: Breaking change (in general, breaking changes should only impact the next api_version)
• libxrpl change (any change that may affect libxrpl or dependents of libxrpl)
• Peer protocol change (must be backward compatible or bump the peer protocol version)

[codecov]

Codecov Report

✅ All modified and coverable lines are covered by tests.
✅ Project coverage is 81.4%. Comparing base (589c9c6) to head (e040383).
⚠️ Report is 1 commits behind head on develop.

Additional details and impacted files

@@            Coverage Diff            @@
##           develop   #6642     +/-   ##
=========================================
- Coverage     81.5%   81.4%   -0.0%     
=========================================
  Files          997     997             
  Lines        74408   74408             
  Branches      7561    7557      -4     
=========================================
- Hits         60606   60603      -3     
- Misses       13802   13805      +3     

see 3 files with indirect coverage changes

🚀 New features to boost your workflow:

• ❄️ Test Analytics: Detect flaky tests, report on failures, and find test suite problems.

[bthomee]

I think we'll also want to update some of the versions, such as openssl and grpc, in a follow-up PR.

[mathbunnyru]

I think we'll also want to update some of the versions, such as openssl and grpc, in a follow-up PR.

Yes, I didn't want to mix too many different types of updates here. This one doesn't change important versions, and the way to update is different.